Follow the orgasm

I had this interesting moment in an OM this morning. It was clear that he wasn’t on my clit, but where he was felt SO GOOD that there was no need to request an adjustment.
it reminded me of a fb chat where people were stressing about if they were in the right “spot”, or that the clit was too sensitive to be stroked, and other procedural concerns. If followed as intended, the strokee will make requests based on her relationship to her orgasm. Her requests will lead to needed adjustments. If we trust ourselves,  our orgasm will lead us to “the right spot” of that moment, wherever that is. It may not be on the clit!

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